Just the other day a cousin that I have not heard from very often contacted me. Her daughter was having a difficult pregnancy and she wanted me to pray for her daughter and the baby. I was glad to do so. I am happy to report that mother and baby are fine. When I was a newly ordained priest, I remember that there was one day when I received three different phone calls where each person simply wanted me to pray for some particular intention on their behalf. I have never forgotten that, for it was a powerful lesson.
I realize that there was probably some thought on their part that my prayer might somehow be more effective than theirs, which I do not believe is true, but it made an impression on me: What people wanted me to be for them and expected me to be was a person of prayer. They didn’t want me to solve their problems. They did not necessarily want me to do something for them. They wanted me to stand with them in prayer, to pray with them as they prayed. Many people entrust their prayers and petitions to us, and we friars are happy to pray with them and for them.
Each day, we pray the Divine Office and celebrate the Eucharist, and we always remember our benefactors. We also pray together for some intention. For example on the 19th day of the month we pray for our co-workers in ministry; on the 20th we pray for our friar authors and artists; on the 25th we pray for the parishes where we serve; on the 26th we pray for the effectiveness of our preachers; on the 28th we pray for young people. Each Tuesday the provincial staff gathers to read a few of the petitions that have been sent to us, as we entrust all the petitions sent to us to God’s mercy. You can send your petitions to our Friar Works Office or at StAnthony.org.
We friars have five priorities or core values that guide our lives. They are: 1) prayer; 2) fraternity; 3) minority; 4) mission; and 5) formation. You will note that prayer is first, because it is the foundation of our life.
We are happy to share that foundation with you, our friends and benefactors.
-- Fr. Jeff Scheeler, OFM
Provincial Minister